Provenance · Mother's mother's father

Antonio Di Landro

The furthest name the record reaches. A date of birth, and after it nothing — which is what a hundred and fourteen years does to a family that never wrote anything down.

An account335 words · written from family memory · open to correction

What the record holds

Born
23 March 1912family record
Died
Not recorded
Trade
Not recorded
Parents
Not recorded
Line continues
Gelsomina Di Landrodirect line

The twenty-third of March, 1912

He was born on the twenty-third of March 1912, and that is the furthest back this record reaches.

Two years before the first war. Thirty before the second. Italy was eleven years into a century it would spend badly. He would have been of an age to be called up for one war and to have sons of an age for the other, and whether either of those things happened to him is not written anywhere.

One hundred and fourteen years, one line

From him to me is four generations and a hundred and fourteen years — and the entire surviving record of the man is nine words long.

That is not a scandal. It is the ordinary rate at which families forget: roughly one generation of detail per generation of distance, until what is left is a name, a year, and a position on a diagram. He is what the process looks like when it has run to completion.

He is the far end of this book. There is nothing above him and, at this rate, there was never going to be.

What is left

He had a daughter, Amalia's daughter, Gelsomina, born in Maiori in 1944 — my grandmother. Through her the line runs to my mother and then to me, which means that every word on this website is, at four removes, downstream of a man about whom nine words survive.

I do not find that depressing. I find it a reason to write things down.

The years, in order

  1. 1912born, 23 March
  2. 1920Amalia Apicella, who he will marry, is born in Tramonti
  3. 1944his daughter Gelsomina is born in Maiori
  4. dies. Date unrecorded
  5. 2026nine words of him survive, and this page holds them

Written from what the family remembers, and open to correction. Anything missing, or wrong, comes here.